From the photos you see online, newborn sessions look like pure magic—tiny babies sleeping peacefully, perfectly posed, with angelic little faces.

And yes… sometimes they are exactly like that.

But most of the time? They’re a beautiful, messy mix of real life.

Here’s what really goes on behind the scenes:

1. The Baby Doesn’t Always Want to Sleep

Even the tiniest newborn can have a mind of their own. There’s often a bit of (or a lot of) restlessness—crying, squirming, or staring at me wide-eyed. That’s where cuddles, nappy changes, dummies, and sometimes multiple feeds during the session come in.

2. Toddlers Have Other Plans

If your newborn has an older sibling, they might not be quite as excited about “photo day” as we are. We’re talking about the occasional tears, tantrums, and flat-out refusals. Cue the bribery, silly games, and some extra patience.

3. Bodily Functions Happen

Babies have perfect timing… for poo explosions and projectile vomits. I always have extra blankets, wraps, and swaddles on hand—and Photoshop for anything we can’t wipe away.

4. Sometimes the Parents Cry Too

Hormones, exhaustion, and the overwhelming emotions of this new chapter can hit all at once. Tears are welcome here—it’s a safe, judgment-free space.

5. The Key Is Letting Go of Expectations

Every baby (and family) is different. The best sessions happen when we embrace the chaos, take breaks when needed, and remember that the little in-between moments often make the most meaningful photos.

A newborn session isn’t just about “getting the shot”—it’s about capturing the real, raw, love-filled story of these early days.
Mess, magic, and all. 💛