Toddlers at Newborn Sessions: What to Expect (and How We Make It Work)

by Chantelle Elise Photography – Doreen, Melbourne

If you're bringing a toddler along to your newborn session, first of all—you’re not alone. Many families I photograph are adjusting to life with two (or more!) little ones, and it’s such a special season to capture.

That said… photographing toddlers and newborns together?
It’s unpredictable. It's chaotic. It's beautiful.
And yes—we make it work. Every time.

Toddlers Are Welcome Exactly As They Are

Toddlers are naturally curious, active, and sometimes a little unsure about this new tiny human in the family. My approach is always to meet them where they’re at—whether that means giving them a few moments to warm up, letting them take breaks, or involving them in playful ways.

There’s no pressure for perfect smiles. Real moments always win.

We Capture the Sibling Bond (Even If It’s Brief!)

Most toddlers won’t sit still for long—and that’s okay. I work quickly and creatively to capture sweet sibling moments, whether it's a gentle kiss, a curious touch, or even a candid glance. Sometimes all it takes is a second, and we’ve got the magic.

Timing Is Everything

If possible, I recommend bringing toddlers in at the beginning or end of the session, depending on their routine. We aim to get the sibling and family photos first, so they can head off with dad, a grandparent, or a snack while we focus on bub. The session is always flexible around your child’s needs.

Bring Snacks, Bribes, and Their Favourite Toy

Don’t be shy about bringing along snacks, a favourite teddy, or even an emergency lollypop! A familiar item can help them feel more settled in the studio, and I’ve got a few toddler-friendly tricks up my sleeve too.

Family Photos Matter

Even if you're tired, and your toddler is climbing the walls—please get in the frame. This season is short and intense, and the photos we take now will mean everything to you later. One day, your babies will look back and see how loved they were, right from the start.

My studio in Doreen is calm, cosy, and completely toddler-welcoming. If you’re worried about how your little one might go—don’t be. I’ve seen every version of toddler chaos, and I promise we’ll still capture something beautiful.

Let them be little. I’ll take care of the rest.

Warmly,
Chantelle
Chantelle Elise Photography – Newborn & Family Photography, Doreen VIC

Why Dads Should Be in Newborn Photos

(Even If They’re Not So Sure About It)
by Chantelle Elise Photography – Newborn Photographer in Doreen, VIC

Let’s be honest—dads aren’t always jumping for joy at the idea of being in front of the camera during a newborn session. I get it. Maybe it feels awkward, maybe they're tired, or maybe they think the session is more about mum and bub.

But here’s what I gently remind every parent:
These photos aren’t just for you. They’re for your child, too.

You Are Part of Their Story

One day, your baby will look back at these images and see more than just a newborn wrapped in a soft blanket. They’ll see you. The hands that held them. The arms that kept them safe. The quiet strength of the man who loved them from the very beginning.

You Don't Need to "Pose"

Most dads feel unsure because they imagine stiff poses or awkward smiles. That’s not what I do. My style is natural and relaxed. I’ll guide you into comfortable positions—usually just holding your baby or leaning in close. No cheesy grins, no forced moments. Just real, quiet connection.

It Goes by So Fast

The newborn stage is over in a blink. Those early cuddles, the way your baby fits perfectly in your arms, the way they look up at you—this is the good stuff. And once it’s gone, you can’t go back and capture it. Being in the frame means you’re part of the memory, not just the one who stood behind the scenes.

It Means So Much More Later

Your partner will treasure these photos, but more importantly—your children will treasure them. They'll grow up seeing you there from day one. That kind of presence matters. It’s a legacy of love.

So dads, even if it feels a little out of your comfort zone—I encourage you to lean in, even just a little. Let me do the rest. I promise, these photos will be some of your family’s most cherished.

You won’t regret being in them. But you might regret sitting them out.

Warmly,
Chantelle
Chantelle Elise Photography – Studio Newborn Sessions in Doreen, Melbourne